Report Cards: What to Say If Child Gets Bad Grades

Tips for Talking About Report Cards

At a Glance

There are different reasons you might be disappointed in your child’s report card.

What you say (and how you say it) in each situation matters.

Focusing more on effort than on the actual grades can help.

When kids bring home report cards, they may worry about how you’re going to react. And you may not always know the right thing to say. The truth is there isn’t one right thing to say. But it is important to look beyond grades.

Here are some five common report card situations and tips for talking about them.

1. Grades improved, but less than you expected.

You may want to say: “I was expecting to see better grades than this.”

Instead, try saying: “Nice! What do you think helped those grades go up?“

Why: Better grades means your child is making progress. And even a little bit can take a lot of effort. Keeping that in mind lets you talk about what’s working well. It opens the door to talk about what might help bring up the rest of your child’s grades, too.

2. Grades and behavior “need improvement.”

You may want to say: “You’re grounded until your behavior and grades improve.”

Instead, try saying: “I need to take some time to think about this. We’ll talk about this tomorrow.”

Why: When the news isn’t great, you might be tempted to jump to some sort of punishment . But punishment usually doesn’t help kids do better next time.

Take some time to think what “improvement” would look like for your child. Be realistic and talk it over with your child. Then come up with a plan to help make it happen.

3. Grades stayed the same, but behavior and effort improved.

You may want to say: “I’m glad you’re putting in more effort. If only your grades were better, too.”

Instead, try saying: “It’s good to hear you’re getting the hang of what you need to do to work hard and behave in class. Let’s figure out how to get better at classwork, too.”

Why: When we look at a child’s report card, grades are usually the first thing we see. But don’t forget to look at teacher comments to learn about other progress your child is making. If school is hard for your child, putting in more effort is a big deal.

4. Some grades got better, but some got worse.

You may want to say: “What happened with the rest of your classes?”

Instead, try saying: “Your math and science grades look great! What’s going on in the rest of your classes?”

Why: As kids get older, the expectations for learning change. It can be harder to meet them in some subjects.

Talk with your child about the classes that had lower grades this time around. Ask whether there’s anything about them that’s hard and what would help. Conversations like that teach kids to speak up for what they need in order to improve. (Learn more about how to give praise that builds self-esteem .)

5. Poor grades in most classes, even though your child is working hard.

You may want to say: “You’re failing everything?! But you’re working so hard!”

Instead, try saying: “I’m really surprised by these grades. I’ve seen how hard you’re working. We’re going to figure this out.”

Why: If kids are working hard and still struggling, there’s a good chance they already feel bad. Kids in this situation may be scared that nothing they do helps.

Kindly saying that you know they’re working hard can be a relief for kids. It tells them you know they’re not “just being lazy.” And showing that you’re committed to figuring out what’s happening can be a confidence boost. It tells them you’re in it together.

Find out what to do if your child is falling behind in school . And see what questions to ask teachers about how your child is doing.

Key Takeaways

Don’t just look at the grades—read the teacher’s comments, too.

If your child improved in one area, talk about what your child did to make that happen.

If your child is working hard but still struggling, make sure your child knows that you see the effort.


About the Author

About the Author

worked as a classroom teacher and as an early intervention specialist for 10 years. She is the author of The Everything Parent’s Guide to Special Education. Two of her children have learning differences.

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Bob Cunningham, EdM&nbsp

serves as executive director of learning development at Understood.

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18 Things You Should Never Do on an Airplane

Traveling is stressful as it is, so let’s not add the burden of getting sick from the flight to your itinerary. Experts reveal where the germs are hiding and how to stay healthy and comfortable while airborne.

Please! Don’t walk around barefoot

Flight attendants have seen everything from vomit to blood to spilled food hit that carpet. “We see people walking from their seats into the bathrooms all the time barefoot and we cringe because those floors are full of germs,” said Linda Ferguson, a flight attendant for 24 years. “Never walk barefoot into the bathroom or the galley area because sometimes we drop glasses and there could be sharp glass there, too.” Here are more secrets flight attendants won’t tell you.

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Skip the ice in your drink

An EPA study in 2004 found that out of 327 aircraft’s water supplies, only 15 percent passed health standards. Since the 2009 creation of the EPA’s Aircraft Drinking Rule Act, standards have risen and most airplanes don’t serve drinking water from the tap, but their ice cubes, however, are often still made from the same water. “Water tanks on an airplane are old and they’ve tested them and bacteria is in those tanks,” said Ferguson. “I would definitely drink bottled water—that’s why they board tons of bottles on an airplane.” Make sure you never eat these 13 foods on an airplane, too.

Don’t sit in your seat the entire flight

On an airplane, you are at a higher risk to develop deep vein thrombosis (DVT) which is a type of blood clot that usually forms in your legs. DVT has been coined as “economy-class syndrome” and walking around for a few minutes or standing up to stretch are good bets to help prevent it. (Just remember to put your shoes on!) Also, try to avoid tight clothing that could cut off circulation while in flight. “The most important thing is to try to move around and move your legs at least once every hour,” said Catherine Sonquist Forest, MD, a primary care doctor at Stanford University Health Care. “If you can’t get up, you can do exercises in your seat by lifting alternate knees up to your chest and twisting in your chair from side to side.” Check out the very best airplane seats for every type of need.

Ditch your contact lenses

If you can, opt to wear glasses in flight. The air in the cabin is very dry and can cause irritation to your eyes. Also, if you’re a known sky snoozer, falling asleep in contacts not made for overnight wear can be especially irritating. Keep your eyes open with these travel cartoons that find the funny in everything.

Don’t turn off the air vent over your seat

If the air blowing makes you chilly, it might be smarter to throw on a sweatshirt rather than turn off the vent. Doctors recommend that the adjustable air over your seat should be set to medium or high in flight so that any airborne germs can be blown away before they enter your personal zone. These are the 7 hidden airplane features you had no idea existed.

Don’t eat food after it’s fallen on the tray table

Yuck! That tray table doesn’t get sterilized between flights, so unless you’ve brought your own disinfectant or placemat, let that cookie crumb go if it hits the tray and not your plate. “The tray table is notorious,” said Stephen Morse, professor of epidemiology at Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health. Ferguson adds that tray tables are usually only wiped down once a day, when the plane goes into an overnight station. “Those tray tables are used for all kinds of things,” said Ferguson. “During flights, I’ve seen parents changing babies on top of tray tables. I’ve seen people put their bare feet on top of tray tables.” One study found that trays harbor an average of 2,155 colony-forming units of bacteria per square inch. Compare that with the 265 units on the lavatory flush button. And while all samples tested negative for potentially infectious bacteria such as E. coli, you’ll still want to steer clear of that tray. Don’t be that person: Follow these airplane etiquette rules the next time you fly.

Don’t use the blankets

Another airplane item that doesn’t get a thorough cleaning between flights? Yup, those blankets and pillows offered in the seatback are recycled flight to flight and usually don’t get properly washed until the day is over. Items like pillows and blankets are ideal places for germs and lice to camp out and spread from person to person. “I see people wrap their feet in the blankets, I see people sneeze in the blankets,” Ferguson adds. Make sure you know the 11 things you can still get for free on an airplane.

Don’t forget to stay hydrated

Parched throat mid-flight? Don’t just blame the salty snacks. Airplane cabins are known for their low humidity because the manufactured air in the cabin is made to mimic the highest altitude humans can breathe at, usually between 6,000 and 8,000 feet, according to the World Health Organization. “For every leg of flight, each flight attendant will try to drink a full 16 oz. of water,” said Ferguson. “That’s the most important. Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate.” But please never do these things in an airplane bathroom.

Opt out of coffee or tea

You don’t want to drink anything that could possibly be made with the tap water from the plane. Even though the water for tea and coffee is usually boiled, if you can opt for bottled water or another beverage from a sealed container you should. Another reason to avoid coffee and tea: Caffeinated beverages aren’t your best bet while flying. “Caffeine slightly dehydrates you,” Dr. Forest says. “It’s not a huge problem to drink caffeine but include water also.»

Don’t booze too much

While a nice glass of wine can take some of the edge off of traveling, alcohol is extremely dehydrating. Combine that with the low humidity of the plane and your body’s in for a drying experience. In addition, the thin-air of a plane makes the effects of alcohol hit you faster, and harder. Not to mention that excessive drinking lowers your immune system in general, so this tip goes for pre-flight rituals at the airport bar as well. “One drink in the air is like drinking two on the ground—it can affect you faster,” said Ferguson. “We’ve been known to water down drinks a lot or if someone just keeps wanting glasses of wine, we’ll pour half a glass instead of a whole glass.” Don’t miss the craziest requests people have made on airplanes.

The Guide to Kindergarten

On the first day of kindergarten, your child officially becomes a student! It’s an exciting transition as young learners blend the playing, singing, and craft-making from preschool with more writing, reading, and math lessons. Kindergarteners get used to school routines, practice working together in groups to build teamwork and sharing skills — and learn how to be successful students for years to come.

Kindergarten classrooms are typically organized by different subjects and various types of play. For example, a typical classroom may have areas for reading, arts and crafts, building and math toys, and «pretend play.» The school day is structured with time for free play (during which children can choose which centers to play in), and structured scheduled lessons devoted to each subject. The expectations for what students should achieve, and specifically whether they should know how to read and write by the end of kindergarten, vary across schools, so talk to your child’s teacher for details regarding the specific curriculum.

Research has shown that participants in full-day kindergartens often achieve higher standardized test scores in the future, and generally excel in school. In addition, they develop strong social skills as they engage in more child-to-child interactions and develop their interpersonal skills. But here’s what’s especially exciting: By laying the right foundation for your child’s success in kindergarten, you can prime her for accomplishing great academic strides for years to come. Make sure she is prepared for kindergarten and excels throughout the year with this comprehensive guide to success.

Read on for what to expect this year, or jump straight toВ your kindergarten shopping list.В

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In kindergarten, children begin to grow as independent readers and become more comfortable with reading, which is now part of their daily life. A kindergarten classroom is packed with words and labeled objects, and students read books, the day’s schedules, class letters, songs, and poems throughout the day.

To build reading skills, your kindergartener:

  • Learns all of the letters of the alphabet (upper case and lower case) and their sounds.
  • Begins to “read” books himself, mainly by memorization (short books likeВ Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?В are ideal for this!).
  • Reads and listens to stories and then talks about the stories, including their plots, characters, and events.
  • Follows words from left to right, top to bottom, and page by page.
  • Recognizes and can produce rhyming words.
  • Recognizes several basic sight words such as I, my, you, is, and are. (You can help him practice with this Sight Word Readers Parent Pack, which includes 25 little books that teach 50 of the most frequently used words in print.)
  • Adds or substitutes individual sounds in simple, one-syllable words to make new words, such asВ replacingВ the “C” in “Cat” with an “R” to create the word “Rat.”

Your Kindergarten Book Checklist for Reading

We Are in a Book! (An Elephant & Piggie Book) — Best friends Gerald and Piggie discover the joys of being “read” in this mind-bending, interactive story that teaches children how books are set up, all while using vocabulary just right for beginner readers in kindergarten.В

Pete the Cat Phonics Box Set — Set your little learner up for reading success with this collection of 12 vibrant books that cover short and long vowel sounds. Based on research-backed methods for teaching children how to reach, these vocabulary-boosting reads come in a handy carry-along box your child can take everywhere.В

First Little Readers Guided Reading Pack (Levels A-C) — It’s an essential for jumpstarting reading! This curated collection of stories builds reading confidence by using repetition, fun illustrations, and short sentences. Plus, here areВ savvy ways to use these books to get the most out of them.В

Clifford Goes to Kindergarten — In an adorable tale about preparing for and going to kindergarten, Emily Elizabeth explores her new school—and Clifford even makes an appearance in the classroom! This book will prime your kindergartener for his first day of class and further build his growing reading abilities.В

Bonus Reading Activities

Read and Repeat: Ask your child to “read” his favorite book to you, using his memory, associations, and clues from the pictures.

Alphabet Books: Use drawings or pictures from magazines to create an alphabet book withВ a letter and an object that begins with that letter on each page.

Fill in the Blank: When you read a favorite picture book to your child andВ come across a short word that rhymes or is familiar to your child because he knows the story, stop and let him say the word. Point to the word as he says it and spell it out.

Act it Out: Get theatrical! Perform parts of or the whole story from your child’s favorite and well-known books.

In kindergarten, your child begins to truly grow as a writer. Kindergartners start to write words (often using their own creative or invented spellings), and may even write their own mini books and stories about their lives or what they’ve learned.

Don’t worry if she’s spelling most words incorrectly: Creative or invented spelling is a crucial part of developing writing skills at this age. Spelling words based on sounds helps your child consider our language’s building blocks and gain a deeper understanding of them. Most of the words your kindergartner will learn to spell correctly are one-syllable words which often follow the pattern of CVC, or CONSONANT, VOWEL, CONSONANT — think “cat,” “big,” or “rug.”

To build writing skills, your kindergartener:

  • Writes uppercase and lowercase lettersВ (make practice fun with these Learning Mats: Match, Trace & Write: Alphabet)В В В
  • Writes her name.
  • Writes some letters and words when they are dictated.
  • Uses invented or creative spelling to write a variety of words.
  • Uses conventional spelling to write some words (CVC and basic sight words).
  • Writes, draws, and dictates about a variety of topics, including her opinion andВ descriptions of objectsВ or moments andВ events in her life.

Your Kindergarten Book Checklist for Writing

Scholastic Early Learners: Write and Wipe ABC 123 — Reinforce your child’s writing skills by practicing capital and lower-case letters (plus numbers) with this interactive book, which also provides full words like “fox” or “xylophone” for tracing! Practicing with this book throughout the year will help her with alphabet recognition, counting and numbers, and early writing skills.

Scholastic Early Learners: Jumbo Workbook: Kindergarten — Help your little learner succeed with this exciting book, designed to support the learning activities she’s exposed to in the classroom. Packed with activities, colorful photos, and illustrations, and 24 pages of stickers, this giant workbook helps children learn skills such as pen control, sorting, math, and early phonics.

Scholastic Early Learners: Mix & Match Silly Sentences  — Created for kindergarteners, this mix-and-match book with flash cards allows students to combine words to create hilarious new sentences—providing the building blocks for sentence construction. With hundreds of possible combinations, the wacky results make writing fun and interactive!

Bonus Writing Activities

Label Everything: Create labels with your child for different objects in your house, like books, toy bins, foods, kitchen objects, and clothes. You or your child can write the names of the objects, and your child can draw a picture to go along with it. (As a bonus, you’ll have an organized home!)

Play Guessing Games: Draw a picture and have your child guess the spelling of that word, giving him a few letters in the word as a hint. Alternatively, show your child two letters (like this: “_at”) and ask her to make as many words as she can with it.

Create a Photo Album: When you take pictures of events or people, ask your child to label the picture. Glue it to a piece of a paper so she can write a description of the event, what happened, who was there, etc. If other people were involved in the event, send them a copy!

Have a Letter Treasure Hunt: When you’re in the car, at home, or in the store, ask your child to find certain uppercase and lowercase letters. She can keep a list of all the letters she finds and write them down as she discovers them (you might even raise the stakes by offering a small prize if she can find all of the letters!).

In most kindergarten classes, math is woven throughout the day’s activities, because it becomes more meaningful — particularly for young children — when it’s experienced in real-life contexts. This year, your kindergartner will go beyond simply counting numbers to understanding what they represent and actively using them to represent quantities.

Daily kindergarten math activities include learning numbers, counting, addition and subtraction, and learning concepts of time, measurement, and categorization. What’s more, playing with puzzles, building toys, blocks, and games allows kindergarteners to practice and build math skills in a fun, engaging way.

To build math skills, your kindergartener:

  • Understands that numbers represent quantity and uses them to do so.
  • Counts and writes numbersВ from 1-20 (and potentially higher).
  • Counts out and compare quantities, usually up to 20.
  • Counts out and groups objects in order to solve single-digit addition and subtraction problems.В
  • Begins to recognize and understand the meaning of the plus and minus signs (as your kindergartener expands his skills in this area, use theseВ ГјВ colorful Addition Flash Cards to help him further grasp the fundamentals of addition).
  • Uses drawings, objects, actions, and sounds to represent and practice addition and subtraction.
  • Practices beginning measurement and graphing skills, often through the creation of class-wide graphs, such as graphing favorite snacksВ or how kids get to school.
  • Learns about and begin to count to 100, specifically through tallying the days of school and a celebration on the 100th day of schoolВ (many but not all kindergarten classes do something like this).
  • Creates patterns (the bookВ Math-terpieces canВ help encourage your kindergartener to look for patterns in a whole new, number-orientated way!).
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Your Kindergarten Book Checklist for Math

Scholastic Little Skill Seekers: Numbers and Counting: Numbers equate toВ funВ in this colorful workbook! With pages that cover writing numbers, the relationship between quantity and numbers, and number identification, it will give your child a sturdy foundation for math confidence and success in kindergarten and beyond.В

Scholastic Little Skill Seekers: Connect the Dots: By connecting dots in numerical or alphabetical order to reveal a picture, your kindergartener will develop skills in counting (without even realizing it!). As a bonus, this cute activity book also sharpens their fine motor skills.В

Scholastic Early Learners: Write and Wipe Counting — Your child can sharpen his number-writing skills before and throughout kindergarten with this interactive wipe-clean board book. In addition to teaching kindergarteners how to write numbers 1 to 10, it offers practice in ordering and counting numbers. (Here are more reasons to love Write and Wipe books!)

Bonus Math Activities

Cook with Patterns: The opportunities here are endless! Make patterns with cereal necklaces, decorate cookies, layer sandwiches out of bread or crackers, or create simple patterns using your child’s favorite colored candies.

Make Math Realistic: Use everyday objects to practice addition and subtraction. If you have a bowl of five apples, ask your child to help you figure out how many you will have left if you take three away.

Build Things: Use blocks, Legos, or any other building toys to construct houses, towers, and vehicles. As your child builds, ask him to count pieces, create patterns, and talk about the shapes.

Take a Poll: Ask family members a question, then create a simple and fun graph of the answers using numbers and pictures.

Find Sizes in Nature: Go outside and collect objects like leaves, stones, and pinecones. Next, count how many things you found and describe their sizes using words like “larger,” “smaller,” “biggest,” and “smallest.” For extra practice, add up the objects that are the same (for instance, all of the leaves).В

Very often, kindergarten teachers will give specific science lessons once to a few a times a week. During this time, the class will learn about a certain topic — for example, water, weather, animals, plants, or nature — through the use of books, demonstrations with actual objects, explorations outside, or interactive activities.

What’s more, kindergartners are natural scientists as they play and explore the world around them with their curious minds. Science lessons typically overlap with math and literacy as kindergarten teachers use tools such as books and graphs to help students learn. Since specific science topics presented in a kindergarten class vary across schools, find out which topics your child will be learning about, then explore and learn about them using the book checklist below.

To build science skills, your kindergartener:

  • Is a natural born scientist, constantly exploring, observing, questioning, and experimenting as she plays and interacts with her surroundings.
  • Learns new facts about a variety of topics.
  • Explores and experiments with the world around her and with objects provided by the teacher.
  • Makes observations and records what she sees and learns using graphs, pictures, and words.

Your Kindergarten Book Checklist for Science:

Mae Among the Stars — Pique your kindergartener’s interest in science with this inspiring story about Little Mae, a girl with a supportive family, unbounded passion, and a big dream to dance among the stars and become an astronaut one day.

Guided Science Readers: Parent Pack — This collection of 16-page books will provide a valuable foundation for your kindergartener’s science know-how by teaching her about birds, sloths, tigers, honeybees, horses, bears, and much more! Engaging text is paired with just a few lines of age-appropriate text per page for your growing reader.

Now You Know How It Works — This book takes infographics to an exciting new level with bright, colorful visuals perfect for your kindergartener. She’ll explore easy-to-understand explanations about how everything works, from paper airplanes to pencils, satisfying the questions she has long wanted answers to—and those she didn’t know she had at all!

Bonus Science Activities

Observe Nature: Pick something in nature — plants, the moon, a rainstorm, etc. — and observe it with your child for a few days or even weeks. Ask your child to draw pictures of what she notices, including patterns and differences over time. (You can jot down her observations, too.) Do this repeatedly, keeping scientific journals on different objects.

Inspect Your Food: Cut open various fruits and vegetables and see what you find inside! Talk about the seeds, the difference between fruits and vegetables, and other things you notice.

Make Science Collages: Use pictures from magazines, newspapers, or the Internet (with supervision) to create collages of different science objects, organizing plants, birds, fish, and more into various categories.

Learn About a Favorite Animal: Pick an animal your child loves and learn all about it. Buy kindergarten-level books about it,В visit it at a zoo or farm, or look at pictures of it online. Then help your child create a collage of what she learned about that animal using pictures and words.В

Social Studies: Kindergarten

In a kindergarten classroom, social studies learning occurs throughout the day, beginning with a class meeting (often called “morning meeting” or “circle time”) at the start of the day. During this time, many classes review the calendar and the weather, the number of days of school so far, and any other “class news” for the day. Students may also share their own news during this time.

Social studies learning continues throughout the day as kindergartners follow classroom rules and build their social skills, interacting with each other and practicing sharing, taking turns, and working together, all of which ultimately helps them become successful students and classroom citizens. Most kindergarten teachers in the United States also help children learn about the community outside their home and the American holidays.В

To build social studies skills, your kindergartener:

  • Works in groups, sharing and taking turns.
  • Develops conflict resolution skills (practice this and other social situations with your child with theseВ What Do I Do? Conversation Flash Cards).В В В
  • Develops communication and conversation skills.
  • Learns about his community outside of his home.
  • Learns about the calendar.
  • Learns about American holidays.

Your Kindergarten Book Checklist for Social Studies

Llama, Llama Time to Share — Emphasize the importance of sharing in this story about a little llama and his new neighbors. Llama Llama isn’t so sure he wants to share with Nelly Gnu (maybe he could share just his blocks so they can build a castle together?), but when the fun turns into tears as a favorite stuffed animal is ripped into two, the benefits of sharing become much more clear.

Of Thee I Sing: A Letter to My Daughters — Begin to teach your kindergartener about our country’s history with this book written by former President Barack Obama. Told through tender narrative and breathtaking illustrations, it’s a moving tribute to 13 groundbreaking Americans and the ideals that shaped our nation.

BonusВ Social Studies Activities

Study Your Community: Walk around your local neighborhood and help your child take photos, draw pictures, and write about what he notices. Encourage him to talk to different people in the community (with your supervision) and ask them questions. Then make a poster or short book about your town — he can send this info to a family member who lives somewhere else.

Take a Trip: Compare your own town and community to others around you. If you live in a city, visit a more rural or suburban area — or vice versa. Talk about the differences and similarities between your town and others, or make a chart illustrating them.

Act it Out: Use role play to help your child work on his conflict resolution skills. Act out small situations of conflict. For instance: What happens if someone is playing with a toy you want, or what happens if you don’t agree with someone? Help your child figure out specific strategies he can use in different situations.

Make a Group Plan: Work with other family members or friends on a specific task such as cleaning up a yard or room,В cooking, or setting up a meal or party. Assign everyone specific roles and figure out how to work together in the best way possibl e.В

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